"Drama doesn't just walk into your life out of nowhere; either you create it, invite it, or associate with it."
Some people just can't help but drag you into their bullshit and drama, they can't fix their own problems or themselves because they are weak excuses for human beings. Everything they touch or do gets fucked up. They cannot and will not accept any responsibility for their own ability to change and grow, remaining stuck in a perpetual cycle of drama and issues. Until these people truly stop looking externally for an excuse and start owning their problems only then will they be able to grow and change. They will remain immature and uneducated and further unable to face and fix their own problems. Like a tornado sucking everything in wreaking havoc their problems compound and grow upon themselves spewing out on to anyone that happens to cross their path. Facing themselves and truly looking into the mirror is beyond comprehension because the easy way out is well easy. Unfortunately, the only way is to face one's problems is not to run away from it or blame it on anyone else, and least of all put your problems on someone else. You must learn to be able to dig yourself out, be self-reliant, and self-sufficient.